Friday
Sep 10
- BreakfastNothing plannedNo meal
- LunchNothing plannedNo meal
- DinnerChinese barbecueLamb · beef · chicken wings
We’re getting married in the county, and we would love for you to join us for a long weekend of good food, open skies, and celebration.
Five days, staggered gatherings
Not everyone is here for all five days. Follow your group through the timeline to see when the house is yours.
FridaySeptember 10
Eva’s friends arrive at the main house, settle in, and open the weekend with a barbecue and the first house party.
SaturdaySeptember 11
Hudson’s friends have the house for a full day of lunch, games, dinner, and a late house party.
SundaySeptember 12
Sunday is the open day between the friends’ gatherings and the family days, with an easy rhythm at the house.
MondaySeptember 13
The second-last day belongs to our family friends, with a brewery visit, a big dinner, and one more house party.
TuesdaySeptember 14
The last day is reserved for family: breakfast, time together, high tea, and a late-afternoon goodbye.
A first pass
Breakfasts are planned at the house, with the main ingredients listed below each one. Lunch and dinner restaurants remain placeholders.
Working meal planSep 10
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About the celebration
This weekend is a little different from a traditional one-day wedding. Here’s what we’re planning—and why.
We want the celebration to feel spacious, not rushed. The wider five-day rhythm lets each group arrive, settle in, and have real time with us before the next group joins. No one is expected to attend all five days—your invitation and timeline will make your arrival and departure window clear.
Smaller groups mean real conversations and unhurried time together. Eva’s friends have Friday, Hudson’s friends have Saturday, family friends have Monday, and Tuesday is family only. It isn’t about ranking guests—it’s about making room for connection and making the most of the space we have.
No. There won’t be an aisle, formal vows, or a seated ceremony. There is no single formal ceremony day. Each gathering will have its own version of a celebration, with time for a few words, drinks, dinner, and dancing.
Expect shared meals, time outdoors, games, good conversation, and a proper evening of dinner and dancing. There will also be breathing room—this is a weekend to enjoy, not a schedule to race through.
Housing follows the same staggered rhythm as the guest groups. We’re coordinating shared rooms around each group’s arrival and departure window, and you’ll receive your house and room details before the weekend. If you’d rather arrange your own space, nearby stays are also an option.
Where everyone stays
Choose a day to see the current sleeping arrangement. For now, the draft follows the five-day guest handoff. Clarke Road Retreat is the 16-person main house. Tuesday remains unchanged until its final list is confirmed.
Friday
24people across three housesGood to know
Driving is the easiest way to reach the county. Plan around the arrival time shown for your guest group.
Picton, Bloomfield, and Wellington all make lovely home bases. A short list of recommended stays will follow.
Transportation details between central pick-up points and Clarke Road Retreat will be shared with each guest group.
Think colour, comfortable shoes, and a light layer for the evening. Your invitation will include the dress note for your day.
Help shape the soundtrack
Find a track you’d love to hear during the weekend. We’ll collect the suggestions and shape them into the final playlists.